Are you in a relationship/ marriage? Look at that person and ask yourself ‘Why am I with this person?”. People stay for different reasons:
1. “For money”
Are you staying with that person for financial security? Are you using that person to make up for your laziness or poverty? What would happen when you get your own money or if that person’s money runs out? Will that be the end? Will you have no reason to stay?
2. “For pity”
Are you wishing you can walk out of that relationship but you stay because you feel sorry for the person and don’t want to break his/ her heart? If you will love, love; no one wants to be loved as if it’s charity, as if they are being done for a favor.